December 11, 2018
I have to admit that the most unforgiving relationship I hold is the one with the media.
This may not come as a surprise as one doesn’t need to look further than a front page of any media platform to see that the media has become an increasingly hostile and contradictory arena.
We seem to be living in times of linguistic austerity and compassion depravity. We are faced with more and more undeniable evidence that the media is creating an increasing social divide and psychological crisis in our society today.
Sadly, this is not something new. If one learns from history and observes the present carefully, it is evident that the
For example, the media has had a single role as a dividing factor and driving force in triggering and perpetuating the Yugoslav wars in the Balkans, by using ethnic identities as a tool to push people against each other and psychologically mobilise old traumas to trigger people into fighting.
This, like many other wars, could have been avoided and prevented if the international political community and the media hadn’t got involved in so many varied, destructive and ignorant ways.
The current political and social climate is sadly triggering the same thoughts and emotions.
Now, don’t get me wrong, I am not equating the current political climate with the wars and genocide in Yugoslavia; however, what strikes me is that today’s rhetoric of division and language of hate is very much the same.
The whole atmosphere of political media debate is shifting further and further away from any constructive dialogue and desire to seek common ground towards the sole desire to prove the other wrong. The noise is getting magnified, content exaggerated and dehumanised, arguments turned more and more cruel, more polarised and less and less anchored in facts.
As media executive Mark Thompson stated in his book “Enough Said: What’s Gone Wrong with the Language of Politics?”: “All that is left is just a fight to the political death, a fight in which every linguistic weapon is fair game”.
Strategically and deliberately the media and politicians continue to use this form of language in order to capture attention, not regarding negative attention as bad; in fact the opposite.
Being sharp, engaging in controversy and perpetual disagreement is proving to be
Politicians such a Donald Trump and Nigel Farage have built their reputation on the back of such political attacks which only brought them more “success”, attention and publicity.
The result of all this is a political and social atmosphere of perpetual disagreement and conflict. It is a discourse that leaves no room for any presumption of good faith between participants
Is shouty politics and insults all that the media can manage and give attention to?
More importantly, how does this affect the rest of us? How does the language of hate, conflict and division affect our society and us as individuals?
Why the language we use matters?
Language plays a significant role in the way we shape the world around us. In psychology, language and cognition are closely interwoven and it is believed that language shapes our way of thinking and consequently shapes our behaviour.
Just consider the impact of poetry or musical song lyrics that can elicit powerful emotions. In the same way “language of judgement and hate” can have an equally powerful impact.
Cognitive linguist and philosopher George Lakoff wrote extensively on why the language matters and how is it used to frame political debates.
In his book, “Don’t Think of an Elephant!” Lakoff states: “Frames are mental structures that shape the way we see the world. As a result, they shape the goals we seek, the plans we make, the way we act, and what counts as a good or bad outcome of our actions.”
Dr Russ Harris, a medical practitioner, consultant to the World Health Organisation, and one of the leading authorities on stress management goes as far as using the word “mind” as a metaphor for “human language”.
Other scientists have been very successful in proving a direct relationship between language and mental health.
For example, a study published by the Clinical Psychology Review conducted at the University of Arkansas demonstrates that exposure to certain words can effect treatment of people who suffer with anxiety and depression. And there is a wealth of other studies which support such and similar claims.
If we take this into account together with the fact that, at present, the world is facing a major “mental health crisis” – should it strike us, perhaps, that the media has somehow had an indirect impact on this?
The World Health Organisation (WHO) estimates that the burden of mental health conditions is on the rise globally and that depression, anxiety and loneliness are becoming a common mental condition.
On the other side, the intervention programmes proven to be most effective are those which enhance the use of positive language and patterns of positive thinking. These interventions are proven to be highly effective within community groups or group interventions that foster mutual understanding, empathy and compassion.
With such clear evidence of the importance of positive language, social inclusion, mutual support and empathy for our well-being – it seems logical that we should pay more attention to the language we use, be mindful of our rhetoric, the way we cultivate dialogue and invest more in positive social relationships.
When it comes to the media and politics, should this be considered, regulated and taken into account?
Would it be going too far to hold the media partially accountable for the hostile world we live in as well as its mental health crisis?
We need to address the central problem here, which is the alienating tone of the media language.
Until both politicians and media begin to speak in the language that is more accepting and positive, there will be little incentive for people to engage in a more constructive and positive way.
What would happen if politicians and media alter their language dramatically and change the way they communicate? Would less aggressive debate produce a more productive debate?
What if compassion became the main driving force in politics and media rhetoric? Would that change the way we view the world and bring greater engagement of the rest of us?
Perhaps it would bring more peace and healing that we are all in need of.
The language of Compassion and Compassion in Action
Compassion is something that we are all inherently capable of and in need of. The quest for connection and compassion is universal. No one is hardwired to cynicism, judgemental and vengeful instincts.
As Theodore Roosevelt declared in his speech Citizenship in a Republic: “It’s not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles or where the doer of deeds could have done them better.”
Perhaps the key is in letting go of seeking victory or avoiding defeat but rather courageously engage with each other in compassion.
We have a responsibility to each other to do things that alleviate pain, not to perpetuate it. Equally, media has the power and responsibility to create a culture of decency in
Going back to my beginnings and my roots in the Yugoslav wars, I would say that neither political debate nor “facts” mattered.
When we were seeking shelter in a cellar while missiles were flying above our heads we were not thinking of either. The sensationalistic media told us that we were enemies and the “reasoned” raw facts were pointing to the harsh reality of war.
However, our true reality was neither.
What we felt, saw and did was not reasoned facts or media infused sensationalism.
Instead, we survived on mutual humanity, compassion and care filled with empathy and understanding. Free from shame or imposed senses of mutually exclusive ethnic identities.
Most probably we were more infused by what was “the truth” than anyone else in the western world watching the news about what was happening to us at that time. Compassion towards one another was what kept us going, what gave us strength and hope – in fact, our lives depended on it!
Many people would think of “compassion” as something naïve or as a weakness.
But what if we understand compassion as something radical and powerful?
What if instead of weakness we thought of compassion as a way to
To me the language and behaviour of compassion
Compassion makes us stronger and makes us free. And free people are most “dangerous” people because they are not controlled by negativity, media or politics;
They focus on the solution, not the problem; they are not chained to resentment and they are not afraid to speak the truth.
And that, to me, is worth fighting for!
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